Marital dialogue In the light of Surat Al-Tahrim Objective study

Abstract

Marital life may encounter some problems that negatively affect its stability and continuity, and there is no way to solve these problems except through discussion, understanding and positive dialogue between the spouses. The role of marital dialogue is not limited to solving family problems only, but extends to achieving positive interaction and enhancing direct communication between the spouses. The study aimed to highlight the role of marital dialogue in addressing family problems and reducing their repercussions, and clarifying the factors affecting marital dialogue and the elements of its success through Surat At-Tahrim, in addition to highlighting the practical model of marital dialogue in the House of Prophethood. In this study, the researcher addressed the topic of marital dialogue in light of Surat At-Tahrim, explaining its concept, importance and objectives. He also studied the factors affecting marital dialogue in light of Surat At-Tahrim, and summarized them in eight factors represented in determining the reference of the dialogue and the necessity of focusing on its topic, not being complimentary in the right, and returning from error, as well as understanding the nature of the spouses, firmness and warning, in addition to maintaining the privacy of the family and positive family intervention. In the last section, he derived six elements for the success of the dialogue The marital dialogue is mutual trust, keeping secrets, frankness, overlooking and ignoring, calm and not getting excited, and taking from reliable sources, using the inductive deductive approach. The researcher reached many results and recommendations, the most important of which are: Emphasizing the difference between marital dialogue in some aspects and general dialogue as a result of the difference between the marital relationship and other relationships, and considering dialogue as one of the most effective means of solving marital problems and achieving positive interaction between family members, whenever the elements of its success are available and the factors influencing it are benefited from. It is no wonder that marital disputes occurred in the house of the Prophet and the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, relied on the dialogue method to solve them and prevent their repercussions.